"Sex education" is the core problem
Beijing News weekly of the new knowledge
Recently, pornography "has always been the focus of media publicity.
This time "," core purpose is the protection of minors, to avoid their violation. But every time I see on TV who burst into tears, condemning the network "pornography" parents, I couldn't help think of some always have contacted children.At the moment, 13-year-old, male.
When I asked him if he visited porn sites, he said without hesitation. For these sites, he is not offensive, this is his knowledge of most major ways. Little as two years older than the moment. She said that she had accidentally enter some porn site, just started as the girl looked very, very quickly turned off the page, but as he grew older, of ignorant and curious, let her also secretly watched some on the Internet and related information. These children of cognition mostly comes from pornographic video, and network type. This of course is very bad, but it points to just "pornography", there is a lack of sex education for our children.Although China is gradually developing sexual education, but from the children's birth, sexual education should start with it.
Early sexual education is divided into infant sex education, early childhood education, childhood sexual education, juvenile period sex education, which in turn is the sexual education. This requires parents to assume the duties of the teacher to guide children about sex. But in our country, the vast majority of parents in child childhood is a breach not talk, many children were tells me that there was virtually no parents and their positive exchange such subjects, commenting on this matter, most people are faced with a rush of prevarication.Abroad for children of the enlightenment and the understanding of sex education than many of us early.
Japan's "pure educations, Sweden 's" love of education ", arebeginning from kindergarten children penetration sex, sex differences in common sense. United Kingdom children from 5 years onwards will accept compulsory education, which is somewhat similar to our compulsory education. Malaysia provisions from the child age 4 to accept of common sense in education, how to understand yourself were born.Sex education for children and evening and not just for oneself, for more awareness of the world, is an effective protection of thought.
From 2004 onwards, the number of organizations began to investigate whether students have preventive awareness of violations. However, after five years, the respondents in proportion of sexual assault merely from 31.1% to 40.7%. And the opposite should of is, obstetric outpatient occur more young pregnant women. A bit of obstetrics and Gynecology peers told me that she received for pregnant women, the youngest is only 11 years old, 15-17-year-old pregnant women more astonishing. I have come across such 囧, a college student is seriously asked me: "I will always stay up to AIDS?" it's not funny, this is the true events around us.When Chao Zhang teacher sex education courses is to shoot down students online and win such as tide high praise, we ever such a course should be in the children in elementary school and even then it's time you should know about.
If they can be more formal science earlier access to this knowledge, our society is not just does not have such a high rate of teenage pregnancy, high HIV and cancer?When I hold a 4-year-old son, give him read the adventures of the little sperm, watched him happily told me: "I was a tiny sperm find home variable comes, they say, from the same shell out in like pearls?", looked at child health right cognitive myself, that happiness is how glorious.
Compared with the network against pornography, sex education for children and adolescents.□ Lanfeng (Tianjin counselors)
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