Tuesday, November 23, 2010

Because of love, so choose to relax your hands (part two)

Wang, Ph.d., is Vice President of Microsoft Research Asia is digital ink and UPen technology inventor. Wang and wives are psychology, and his wife have been education posts in "educating" work, Wang Dr psychology and computer science are cleverly combined with that from the user point of view of psychology to promote implementation of computers more intelligent listening, speaking, reading and writing. Wang, Ph.d., in addition to the work focuses on people-oriented, but also in family education, also has many beneficial to children's healthy development of insights. Let's come together to share Dr. Wang Yu woman experiences of "."

Author: wuying the parents must read magazine

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Chapter IV-trust, is more secure than alert

Wang's "father and daughter Allied" set up for some time, where my mother did not agree that her daughter will find father Association.

Due to high school learning very nervous, mother daughter watching cartoons not agree, but the "coalition" is opposed to Wang, often with her daughter to scouring DVD.

(Let the children like aircraft free flying)

Wang: what should we "let go"

To see the cartoon on my daughter is selective and purpose.

I hope that my daughter from film to feel beautiful in the world. The humanization of the plot, and sincere will potentially affect her. I do not want the children grew up was a guard in heart, you should let her learn to trust and learn to love. Let themselves go and experience life is better? even trick is not a bad thing.

Off-course codes: Wang never looked with suspicion for his team in person, by his own words: "I wait for him to prove that he is a bad man."

Dean of the University, he trust his Deputy, everything is arranged, the result is that everyone is doing well. He also has plenty of time to research subjects, not affected by the impact of some trivia.

Wang quotations:

-A home for dinner.

— — Don't expect children often not at you, and you are having difficulty looking closer, to help you.

After dinner, at home and their things are okay, after all.

-Do not put the child's trifling things.

— — Little children do not have events, are small, your timely help him solve a thing that is okay.

If you despise these things, then become your problem too big.

— The most important behavioral problems.

— Can you don't care about your child's scores, rankings, but if the kids throw paper, speak not polite to strict discipline.

— — Don't and child anxious.

— Want to throw a tantrum, to adjust their status.

You are angry because they are at least good state.

— — Helping children realize their own 100%.

— — Don't let the children go to and others, helping them to develop their capacity is sufficient.

More and more, self-denial is more.

Article last monologue:

Love and responsibility--the return of my daughter

On one occasion, in helping daughter arrangement composition, see daughter wrote in memory of her grandmother's article.

The effect thatGrandma Verne gave her a lot of care, many warm, but not when she grows up can repay died. Seen after I was really touched, daughter can stand in someone else's point of view to feel, she knew that love is not a selfish enjoyment, the return is the best thing to do.

In my wallet, a souvenir photograph of my mother, in fact, that was my one acted very occasionally in the car, and later feel that there is also no need to go out.

My daughter found said to me: father, I know you a little secret, but I will give you a conservative. Daughter is firmly convinced that I put this picture is to always miss her grandmother, because father Grandma always love.

Daughter is a very strong sense of responsibility.

As she entered middle school, homework, test often. Daughter of a lot of pressure. We will take her out for her to relax. But first go back to your lessons must be her own. Although it can be seen how much she would like to continue to play, but a sense of responsibility or the upper hand, she knew that their first task is to learn, know that you are responsible for their actions.

After editing

Remember? children toddlers, you suddenly let go of the hands, he staggered took life's most memorable.

That has always been kind to help the children learn to walk instead of a longer time. In fact in the child's life, we should recall that moment--because of love, "let go" because "let go", he grew up.

Wang's "let go" and not to alienate his daughter, father and daughter between more intimate; "let go" did not make his daughter, but a more responsible.

This "letting go" is a kind of intelligence, which reflects a person's tolerance Wang, trust, also rallied his unique perspective on life. This wisdom made him a successful father and to set out on his career.

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